The Last Holiday Before Summer

While the rest of the world is firing up grills, heading to the lake, and posting “vacation mode activated” selfies, teachers are standing in the middle of their classrooms staring at a stack of unfinished paperwork, twenty-seven unnamed hoodies, and a Chromebook cart that suddenly has only twenty-six chargers.

Because the last holiday before summer isn’t really a holiday for teachers.

It’s halftime.

Parents are relaxing. Students are mentally gone already. Somewhere, someone without children in school is peacefully shopping at Target completely unaware that a teacher just spent forty-five minutes trying to figure out who left a banana in a desk sometime around Easter.

These final two and a half days of school are not for the weak.

This is the season of:

  • “Can we watch a movie?”
  • “Do we HAVE to do work?”
  • “I lost my library book.”
  • “Can I bring slime tomorrow?”
  • “Are we doing anything fun?”
  • and the classic… “Miss, he’s looking at me,” while the accused student is standing six feet away.

Teachers spend the last week balancing exhaustion, survival, and the desperate hope that nobody gets suspended with only thirty-six hours left in the school year.

And somehow… we still show up.

We still decorate doors.
We still hand out end-of-year treats.
We still hug the kids who drove us absolutely insane all year long.
We still tear up over the handwritten notes with crooked spelling and giant hearts.

Because underneath the countdowns, coffee runs, and tired jokes, teachers know these last days matter.

Some students are finishing a hard year.
Some are leaving a classroom where they finally felt safe.
Some are heading into summer excited.
Others are quietly dreading it.

Teachers notice all of it.

So while everyone else is enjoying the holiday weekend, teachers are:

  • cleaning out cabinets they swore they’d organize in October,
  • trying to remember where they hid the good pens,
  • calculating grades with the focus of NASA engineers,
  • and wondering if it’s socially acceptable to sleep for fourteen straight hours on the first day of summer.

Honestly, the final days of school deserve their own Olympic event.

There should be medals for:

  • surviving field day,
  • stopping eighth-grade relationship drama,
  • finding missing AirPods,
  • and making it through classroom cleanup without throwing away something important.

But despite the chaos, there’s something special about these last few days.

The classroom gets louder.
The rules get softer.
The laughter gets bigger.
And teachers start realizing they made it through another year that tested them in every possible way.

So if you’re a teacher reading this while holding an iced coffee and mentally preparing for the final countdown… I see you.

May your students stop asking for snacks.
May your classroom survive cleanup day.
And may your summer begin the second that final bell rings.

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The Day the “Never Absent” Student Was Actually Absent

Every school has one.

That one student.

The student whose attendance record deserves its own trophy, parade, and motivational TED Talk. Rain? Present. Fever? Present. Family vacation? Somehow still present. Three-day weekend? Back before the teachers.

And if you teach in a behavior classroom, you really know this student.

The child who enters your room every morning like a WWE wrestler making their grand entrance. The student whose voice can be heard from the parking lot. The one who keeps you fully hydrated because your stress level burns calories by 8:15 a.m.

So imagine my confusion when I looked at my roster one random Tuesday morning and saw… ABSENT.

I blinked.

I refreshed the attendance screen.

I checked again.

Still absent.

Now listen. Teachers love all their students. We care deeply. We worry when kids are gone.

But there is also a very specific feeling that comes over a behavior classroom when that student is absent.

Silence.

Beautiful, suspicious silence.

The room felt different immediately. The air was lighter. The fluorescent lights seemed less aggressive. Birds were probably chirping outside. I’m almost positive I heard soft jazz playing somewhere in the distance.

One student looked around and whispered, “Wait… where’s Marcus?”

Another student gasped like we had lost a soldier in battle.

Even the paraprofessionals were confused.

Nobody had flipped a chair yet. Nobody had argued with a pencil. Nobody had loudly announced they were “DONE WITH THIS SCHOOL” before first period.

We didn’t know how to act.

By 9:00 a.m., I had completed three tasks I normally wouldn’t finish until Thursday. My coffee was still hot. HOT. I actually got to drink it instead of reheating it seventeen times.

At one point, I accidentally sat down.

Voluntarily.

For several minutes.

A luxury.

The class was so calm that I started getting nervous. I’ve been in behavior classrooms long enough to know peace like this usually means something bad is coming.

It felt like when the house gets too quiet and you suddenly know your child is either asleep… or drawing on the wall with permanent marker.

Still, the day moved beautifully.

Transitions? Smooth. No emotional support walk needed? Incredible. No one yelling “THIS IS RACIST” because they lost a bingo game? Miraculous.

By lunchtime, the entire staff had heard the news.

“Oh wow, he’s absent today?” “Are y’all okay over there?” “How quiet is it?” “Did y’all check the moon phase?”

The funniest part? By the end of the day, we actually missed him.

Because behavior students — even the loud, dramatic, emotionally explosive ones — become part of your daily rhythm. They exhaust you, confuse you, test your patience, and somehow still make you laugh harder than anybody else.

That one student may turn your classroom upside down before 8:30 a.m., but they also give the best random compliments.

“Miss, your shoes look expensive.” “Miss, you smell like cookies.” “Miss, you’re my favorite teacher but don’t tell the others.”

And somehow that makes up for the fact they tried to escape the classroom twice last Thursday.

When the final bell rang, I packed my things in complete peace and thought, “Wow… what a calm day.”

Then I checked my email.

“Student returning tomorrow.”

Of course. Nature was healing.

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The Teacher Wardrobe Dreams That a Behavior Classroom Will Absolutely Destroy!

There are two versions of me.

Version one is the teacher I thought I was going to be.

She wears cream-colored wide-leg pants.
A cute floral blouse.
Gold jewelry.
A Stanley cup in one hand and “calm energy” in the other.
She smells faintly like vanilla and success.

Then there’s the actual behavior classroom teacher version of me.

She owns twelve black shirts because black hides:

  • marker stains
  • coffee spills
  • mystery smudges
  • yogurt launched at high velocity
  • and emotional damage

Her shoes are chosen based on one question only:

“Can I run in these?”

Because if you teach in a behavior classroom, your outfit is not fashion.

It is tactical equipment.

One day I made the mistake of wearing a cute cardigan.
A child wiped applesauce on the sleeve while making direct eye contact.
That cardigan has never emotionally recovered.

Another time I wore hoop earrings.

Why?
I don’t know.
Apparently I wanted to live dangerously.

Behavior teachers do not get to participate in regular teacher fashion culture. While other educators are posting:

  • “OOTD 🍎✨”
  • “Teacher fit check!”
  • “Target teacher haul!”

We are over here dressed like undercover FBI agents prepared for:

  • eloping students
  • desk climbers
  • surprise fire drills
  • emotional support hugs that turn into headbutts
  • and at least one child yelling “YOU’RE NOT MY MOM” before 9:15 a.m.

And listen… we want to be cute.

We see the TikTok teachers in the matching sets.
The neutral blazers.
The white sneakers that somehow remain white.

Meanwhile, I wore a light-colored shirt once and left work looking like I survived a minor natural disaster.

But underneath the humor is something real:

Behavior classroom teachers sacrifice comfort, appearance, and sometimes even dignity just to make it through the day safely and calmly for our students.

We choose practicality because our classrooms require movement, flexibility, patience, and resilience.

So no, I may not show up looking like a Pinterest classroom influencer.

But I will show up:

  • ready to de-escalate
  • ready to protect student dignity
  • ready to celebrate tiny victories
  • and ready to love kids through their hardest moments

Even if I’m doing it in black leggings and stain-resistant sneakers.

And honestly?

That’s the real teacher aesthetic.


4 Behavior Classroom Teacher Essentials I’d Actually Recommend

1. Black Leggings That Survive Everything

Colorfulkoala High Waisted Leggings
Comfortable, stretchy, and forgiving after stress snacks in the teacher lounge.

2. Machine Washable Sneakers

Skechers Hands Free Slip-ins
Because somebody is eventually spilling something on your feet.

3. Giant Teacher Tote Bag

LOVEVOOK Laptop Tote Bag
Fits snacks, behavior charts, chargers, pens, emergency chocolate, and your remaining sanity.

4. Neutral Zip-Up Jacket

Hanes EcoSmart Fleece Zip Hoodie
Professional enough for meetings. Comfortable enough for crisis mode.


To the behavior teachers everywhere:

May your coffee stay warm,
your walkie-talkie stay charged,
and your cute outfit survive at least until first period.

My Amazon Teacher Favorites (That I Use Every Single Week)


Let’s be honest… teachers spend a LOT of their own money on classroom stuff 😅

Over the years, I’ve stopped wasting money on things that look cute but don’t last—and started sticking with what actually works.

So here are my go-to Amazon teacher favorites that I use every single week in my classroom (and yes… they’ve survived my students 👀)


✏️ 1. The Pencil Sharpener That Never Quits

If you know… you KNOW.

Cheap sharpeners will have you fighting for your life by October.

👉 This one: After going through WAY too many broken sharpeners…this is the one that actually survived my classroom.

  • Sharpens fast
  • Doesn’t eat pencils
  • Handles heavy daily use

Why I love it: I don’t have to stop class every 5 minutes to fix broken pencils.

👉 My classroom favorite


📦 2. Storage Bins That Actually Hold Up

I used to buy cute bins that cracked within weeks.

Not these.

👉 These bins didnt crack halfway through the year!

The best for ….

  • Stack easily
  • Don’t crack under pressure
  • Keep everything organized

Why I love it: My classroom looks put together without constant replacing.

👉 Great size for under the desk!


⏱️ 3. Visual Timer (Game Changer)

This is one of those things you don’t realize you need… until you have it.

👉 Perfect for cutting down on the “how much time do we have left?” questions instantly.

GREAT FOR….

  • Transitions
  • Centers
  • Keeping students on task

Why I love it: Students SEE how much time they have left = fewer interruptions.

👉 Timer…set…


🎁 4. Reward Stickers Students Actually Care About

Not all stickers are created equal 😂

👉 These:

  • Are colorful and fun
  • Appeal to different ages
  • Work great for motivation

Why I love it: Instant engagement with minimal effort.

👉 Get ’em here…—-> Stickers


🎒 5. My Teacher Bag (That Holds EVERYTHING)

Because somehow we carry our whole life to school daily…

👉 What I love:

  • Tons of space
  • Durable
  • Comfortable to carry

Why I love it: I’m not juggling 5 random bags anymore.

👉 ONE BAG!!


🧼 6. Disinfecting Wipes (Because… Kids 😅)

Self-explanatory.

👉 Must-have for cleaning…

  • Desks
  • Supplies
  • High-touch areas

Why I love it: Keeps germs in check without extra stress.


📚 7. Dry Erase Markers That Actually LAST

Nothing worse than grabbing a marker… and it’s dead.

👉 These also come in great colors

  • Write smoothly
  • Last longer
  • Easy to erase

Why I love it: Less frustration, more teaching.


🎯 8. Prize Box Items That Motivate Students

You don’t need expensive prizes—just the right ones.

👉 Ideas that I use daily…

Why I love it: Keeps students excited and working toward goals.


✨ My Go-To Classroom Favorites (Quick List)

If you’re in a hurry, here are my top picks:


💬 Final Thoughts

If you’re like me, you want things that actually work and last—not stuff you have to replace every few months.

These are the items I keep coming back to again and again because they make my teaching life easier (and honestly… less stressful).

The Last Day of Spring Break: A Teacher’s Slow Descent Back to Reality

There it is.

Looming.

Unavoidable.

The last day of spring break.

It starts off with denial. You wake up, stretch, smile… and then it hits you like an unexpected staff meeting email: “School resumes tomorrow.”

Immediately, your entire body goes into protest mode.

You whisper to yourself, “I still have time.”
You do not have time.


8:00 AM — False Confidence

You sip your coffee slowly, convincing yourself you’re going to “ease back into things.” Maybe even do a little planning. Maybe.

Instead, you sit on the couch and scroll your phone like it’s part of your job description.


11:30 AM — The Bargaining Stage

You start negotiating with the universe.

“If I just check one email… I’ll feel better.”

You check one email.
There are 47.

You close your laptop immediately and need a snack to recover.


2:00 PM — The Flashbacks Begin

You suddenly remember:

  • That one student who only whispers… during independent work time
  • The one who sprints instead of walks
  • The one who asks, “Is this graded?” before even reading the directions

You stare into space. Your peace is fading.


4:30 PM — The Supply Panic

You start thinking about your classroom.

Do you have pencils?
Do you have patience?
Do you have enough emotional strength for indoor voices?

You briefly consider calling in sick for the next three weeks.


6:00 PM — The Responsible Moment (It Passes Quickly)

You finally open your laptop to “get ahead.”

You type a title: Monday Lesson Plan
Then you stare at the screen like it personally offended you.

You reward yourself for trying… by watching TV.


8:30 PM — The Outfit Crisis

You stand in your closet like it’s your first day of school all over again.

Nothing feels right.

Everything says, “I gave up.”
You want something that says, “I’m refreshed and ready,” but also, “Don’t test me.”

You settle for something comfortable and pray no one comments on it.


10:00 PM — The Acceptance Phase

You sigh. Deeply.

Spring break is over.

The alarms will be set.
The lunch will be packed.
The bathroom freedom… gone again.

But somewhere deep down, you know the truth:

You’re going to walk back in, your students will yell your name like you’re a celebrity, and somehow… you’ll smile.

(After coffee. Definitely after coffee.)


Final Thought

The last day of spring break is a mix of relaxation, resistance, and mild panic… but also a reminder that what you do matters—even if you’d rather be on your couch just one more day.

The Luxury Teachers Dream About All Year: Bathroom Freedom on Spring Break 🚽✨

There are many glamorous things people imagine teachers doing on spring break.

Traveling.
Relaxing.
Reading books on the beach.

But let me tell you the real luxury teachers experience during spring break…

Going to the bathroom whenever we want.

Yes. That’s it. That’s the vacation.

During the school year, teachers operate on a very strict and highly strategic bathroom schedule. It’s less “casual restroom break” and more “military-level tactical planning.”

You can’t just go whenever nature calls. Oh no.

First you must:

  • Check the clock.
  • Calculate how many minutes until the next class.
  • Decide if your bladder can survive another 43 minutes.
  • Wonder if the teacher next door can watch your class for 30 seconds.
  • Realize she’s also holding it.

Then you drink half a cup of coffee and hope for the best.

But spring break?

Spring break is a whole different lifestyle.

Suddenly, you are free.

You walk into your bathroom like royalty.

(Insert dramatic entrance music here.)

Look at that peaceful bathroom.
No bell schedule.
No one knocking on the door asking if someone can tie their shoe.
No student yelling, “Teacher! He took my pencil!”

Just quiet.

And the absolute freedom to say:

“You know what? I think I’ll go to the bathroom right now… just because I can.”

And when you walk in, it looks like this:

Clean floor.
Peaceful silence.
No one asking you for a hall pass.

You sit there for a moment and think:

“Is this what freedom feels like?”

Sometimes you don’t even need to go.

You just go anyway.

Because you can.

Teachers on spring break are out here living wild lives like:

  • Drinking a full glass of water without fear
  • Finishing an entire cup of coffee
  • Using the restroom without calculating minutes between classes

It’s a level of luxury most people will never understand.

So while the world thinks teachers spend spring break traveling the globe…

Some of us are just enjoying the simple things.

Peace.
Quiet.
And a bathroom break whenever we feel like it.

Honestly?

10/10. Highly recommend.