The Day the Behavior Teacher Finally Went Somewhere Fancy

There comes a point every summer when a behavior teacher looks around her house, realizes she has worn leggings for six consecutive days, and decides it’s time to rejoin civilization.

That day finally arrived for me.

For months, I’ve been the woman redirecting behaviors, collecting data, attending meetings, solving crises before lunch, and somehow surviving on coffee and determination. My daily wardrobe consisted of comfortable shoes, school spirit shirts, and whatever outfit could survive an unexpected student meltdown.

But not today.

Today, I was going somewhere with adults.

Actual adults.

Adults who were not asking for snacks, arguing over pencils, or trying to negotiate consequences.

I stood in front of my closet staring at dresses I hadn’t touched in months. The fancy clothes looked confused.

“Oh, so NOW you remember us?”

After trying on approximately seventeen outfits and creating enough rejected clothing piles to qualify as a natural disaster, I finally found the perfect dress.

Then came the accessories.

The nice purse.

The pretty jewelry.

The perfume that costs too much but makes me feel like I own a yacht somewhere.

The shoes that remind me why sneakers became my personality during the school year.

When I arrived at the restaurant, I immediately knew I was out of teacher mode.

Nobody was yelling.

Nobody was running.

Nobody was tattling.

Nobody needed a behavior intervention plan.

The only data being collected was how many appetizers we could order.

For a few hours, I wasn’t Ms. So-and-So.

I was simply me.

A grown woman enjoying a beautiful meal, laughing with friends, ordering dessert without guilt, and remembering that life exists outside school walls.

And honestly?

It felt wonderful.

Teaching is a huge part of who I am, but it isn’t all of who I am.

Sometimes the best self-care isn’t another planner, another organizational system, or another classroom project.

Sometimes self-care is putting on a beautiful outfit, sitting at a white tablecloth restaurant, and remembering that the woman behind the teacher badge deserves luxury too.

So here’s your reminder, teacher friend:

Go make the reservation.

Wear the dress.

Order the fancy drink.

Buy the dessert.

Take the picture.

And enjoy being the main character for an evening.

The classroom will still be there later.

Tonight belongs to you.

Luxury Favorites Teachers Deserve

If you’re planning your own fancy night out, here are a few luxury-inspired favorites worth treating yourself to:

Silk pillowcase for beauty sleep after a long school year

• Elegant perfume for date nights and girls’ nights

Gold layered necklaces that elevate any outfit

• Designer-inspired crossbody purse

Satin pajama set for relaxing at home

Luxury scented candles for creating a spa-like atmosphere

Jewelry travel organizer

• Chic insulated tumbler for iced coffee on the go

Leather planner for your next school year

Spa gift set for summer self-care

Because behavior teachers spend all year taking care of everyone else.

Summer is the perfect time to take care of yourself.

August Me Is Going to Hate May Me

Every year, it happens.

The last day of school arrives. The students leave. The hallways get quiet. The classroom that looked somewhat organized in August now looks like a tornado hit a teacher supply store.

And every year, May Me makes promises.

“I’ll organize all of this when I get home.”

“I’ll label everything next week.”

“I’ll sort these papers before August.”

Spoiler alert: August Me knows those are lies.

This week, I loaded my car with enough classroom supplies to open a small educational warehouse. Bins. Books. Posters. Random cords that apparently belong to something important. Three containers of fidgets. Twenty-seven dry erase markers that may or may not work.

Everything is currently sitting in my house.

Not organized.

Not labeled.

Not sorted.

Just existing.

Right now, Summer Me is feeling relaxed. Summer Me wants naps, tennis, road trips, and absolutely no laminating.

But August Me?

August Me is already stressed.

August Me is going to be digging through mystery bins asking questions like:

“Why did I put task cards with Christmas decorations?”

“Why are behavior charts mixed with extension cords?”

“Who packed this box, and why does it contain one stapler, three stress balls, and a single paper clip?”

The answer, of course, is May Me.

Teachers spend months preaching organization to students.

We color-code folders.

We label everything.

We create systems.

And then somehow, at the end of the year, we throw our own belongings into bins like we’re competing on a game show.

Future Me deserves better.

Will I actually organize everything this week?

Probably not.

Will I tell myself I will?

Absolutely.

Will August Me be standing in my classroom sweating while opening unlabeled containers and questioning every life decision I’ve ever made?

Without a doubt.

So this blog post serves as a public reminder to myself:

Label the bins.

Sort the supplies.

Throw away the broken markers.

Stop bringing home random papers that haven’t been useful since February.

Because August Me is already tired, and she hasn’t even had her first professional development meeting yet.

If you’re a teacher reading this while staring at piles of classroom supplies in your living room, know that you’re not alone.

We all become organizational geniuses in August and chaotic gremlins in May.

The cycle continues.

See you in August when we’re all opening mystery boxes and pretending we’re surprised by what’s inside.

Teacher Summer Break Problem: When You Completely Forget What Day It Is

Dear Summer Break: I Have No Idea What Day It Is

There comes a point during every teacher’s summer break when time completely loses all meaning.

It usually happens somewhere between the third load of laundry and the second trip to Target.

One day you’re setting six alarms, rushing through morning duty, answering emails, collecting data, redirecting behaviors, and counting down the minutes until dismissal.

Then suddenly…

It’s summer.

And now you’re standing in your kitchen at 11:30 a.m. wondering why everyone seems to be at work while you’re eating pancakes on a Tuesday.

At least…I think it’s Tuesday.

Maybe it’s Wednesday.

Honestly, who knows?

The first week of summer break feels like a vacation. The second week feels like freedom. By week three, teachers are basically retired cats wandering around the house looking for snacks and sunny spots to sit.

The other day I woke up naturally, stretched, made coffee, and enjoyed a peaceful morning. I felt productive. I cleaned the kitchen, watered my plants, folded towels, and organized a drawer.

Then I looked at the clock.

It was only 9:15 a.m.

How did I accomplish an entire Saturday before most people had started work?

Another strange thing happens during summer break. You start losing track of dates.

Someone will ask, “What are your plans this weekend?”

And you’ll respond, “What makes this weekend different from Tuesday?”

Every day has the same energy.

Coffee Day.

Laundry Day.

Maybe Tennis Day.

Possibly Car-Looking Day.

Definitely Snack Day.

As behavior teachers, we’re so used to schedules, routines, bells, meetings, ARDs, paperwork, and constant movement that summer feels almost suspicious at first.

You’re convinced you’ve forgotten something important.

You wake up in a panic wondering:

“Did I submit that paperwork?”

“Did I answer that email?”

“Did I take attendance?”

Then you remember…

Nope.

You’re on summer break.

Go back to sleep.

The truth is, teachers spend the entire school year taking care of everyone else. Summer gives us permission to slow down, enjoy our homes, reconnect with hobbies, and remember that we’re people outside of our classrooms.

So if you’ve forgotten what day it is, congratulations.

You’re doing summer correctly.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to check my calendar to figure out whether today is Monday, Thursday, or some completely new day that only exists during teacher summer break.

Happy Summer, Teachers!

And if anyone asks what day it is…

Tell them you’re currently operating on Summer Standard Time.

It’s a real thing.

At least I think it is. 

The first week of summer break and the Teacher car hunt.

The first week of summer break is a magical time for behavior teachers.

For approximately 48 hours, we walk around in a state of complete confusion. We wake up at 5:30 a.m. for absolutely no reason. We hear a random loud noise and immediately wonder which student is climbing on furniture. We instinctively reach for a walkie-talkie that isn’t attached to our hip anymore.

Then reality sets in.

No lesson plans.

No ARD meetings.

No behavior data.

No parent emails marked “urgent” at 9:47 p.m.

Just freedom.

Naturally, with all this newfound free time, I decided to do something completely unreasonable.

I went car looking.

Now, before you picture me test-driving luxury SUVs and comparing leather interior packages, understand that car looking on a teacher salary is very different from actual car shopping.

Car shopping involves choosing between vehicles.

Car looking involves walking around dealership lots saying things like:

“That’s cute.”

“I wonder what the monthly payment is.”

“Oh.”

And then immediately walking away.

The salesman asks what kind of budget you’re working with, and suddenly you become an accountant.

“Well, technically, if I stop buying coffee, cancel three streaming services, eat ramen noodles, and convince my current vehicle to survive another school year…”

Meanwhile, the car you’re driving into the dealership sounds like it’s personally offended by your presence there.

The funniest part is that every vehicle starts looking practical when you’re not spending money.

I sat in a truck I’ll never buy.

A sporty SUV that’s definitely out of my tax bracket.

A vehicle with more screens than my entire classroom.

I pushed buttons.

Adjusted seats.

Pretended I understood all the fancy technology.

Then I got back into my faithful teacher-mobile and drove home.

And honestly?

It was kind of fun.

Because that’s what the first week of summer is about.

Not rushing.

Not solving problems.

Not breaking up arguments.

Not collecting data.

Just wandering around, looking at things, and remembering what it feels like to have nowhere urgent to be.

Will I buy a new car this summer?

Probably not.

Will I continue looking at cars like they’re houses on HGTV?

Absolutely.

Because after spending ten months managing behaviors, writing accommodations, attending meetings, and doing approximately seventeen jobs under the title of “teacher,” I have earned the right to sit in vehicles I can’t afford and dream a little.

Summer break is finally here.

And for now, the only thing I plan to manage is my air conditioning setting and my snack inventory.

Happy summer, fellow teachers. Enjoy the freedom while it lasts. August is already somewhere in the distance, warming up its copier jams and staff meetings.

The Last Holiday Before Summer

While the rest of the world is firing up grills, heading to the lake, and posting “vacation mode activated” selfies, teachers are standing in the middle of their classrooms staring at a stack of unfinished paperwork, twenty-seven unnamed hoodies, and a Chromebook cart that suddenly has only twenty-six chargers.

Because the last holiday before summer isn’t really a holiday for teachers.

It’s halftime.

Parents are relaxing. Students are mentally gone already. Somewhere, someone without children in school is peacefully shopping at Target completely unaware that a teacher just spent forty-five minutes trying to figure out who left a banana in a desk sometime around Easter.

These final two and a half days of school are not for the weak.

This is the season of:

  • “Can we watch a movie?”
  • “Do we HAVE to do work?”
  • “I lost my library book.”
  • “Can I bring slime tomorrow?”
  • “Are we doing anything fun?”
  • and the classic… “Miss, he’s looking at me,” while the accused student is standing six feet away.

Teachers spend the last week balancing exhaustion, survival, and the desperate hope that nobody gets suspended with only thirty-six hours left in the school year.

And somehow… we still show up.

We still decorate doors.
We still hand out end-of-year treats.
We still hug the kids who drove us absolutely insane all year long.
We still tear up over the handwritten notes with crooked spelling and giant hearts.

Because underneath the countdowns, coffee runs, and tired jokes, teachers know these last days matter.

Some students are finishing a hard year.
Some are leaving a classroom where they finally felt safe.
Some are heading into summer excited.
Others are quietly dreading it.

Teachers notice all of it.

So while everyone else is enjoying the holiday weekend, teachers are:

  • cleaning out cabinets they swore they’d organize in October,
  • trying to remember where they hid the good pens,
  • calculating grades with the focus of NASA engineers,
  • and wondering if it’s socially acceptable to sleep for fourteen straight hours on the first day of summer.

Honestly, the final days of school deserve their own Olympic event.

There should be medals for:

  • surviving field day,
  • stopping eighth-grade relationship drama,
  • finding missing AirPods,
  • and making it through classroom cleanup without throwing away something important.

But despite the chaos, there’s something special about these last few days.

The classroom gets louder.
The rules get softer.
The laughter gets bigger.
And teachers start realizing they made it through another year that tested them in every possible way.

So if you’re a teacher reading this while holding an iced coffee and mentally preparing for the final countdown… I see you.

May your students stop asking for snacks.
May your classroom survive cleanup day.
And may your summer begin the second that final bell rings.

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Summer break rehab…

6 THINGS I DID ON SUMMER BREAK TO LEVEL UP!!

Teachers, Para Educators, RBTs HEAR ME!!!!

We need the summer to reconnect and rest; I’m sharing the 6 things I did to recharge myself while on summer break and I hope if you are still on break, or already preparing to head back to class, that you enjoyed some of this too…

#1. SLEEP IN

I turned off the 5:45am alarm! The minuet I left on the last day of school I sat in my car and turned off the alarm… because I knew I was sleeping late the next day…. unfortunately my body did not cooperate and I woke up at 6:15 in a panic thinking I had missed my alarm 🙂

#2 Relaxed

I sat on the patio with a cup of coffer and just relaxed. It was sooo hard at first because I kept feeling like I should have been doing something productive, lol, but relaxing is productive!! So that became my thing, morning coffee on the front porch and evening wine on the back porch….loved it!!

#3 Rest

You may think that relaxing and resting arethe same thing, well no. Resting is shutting everything off including you mind( I know while I was on the porch I was still mentally redecorating my classroom) Soooo, yea I rested, I became comfortable with a mid day nap.

#4 EAT

I ate food, lol…..sounds crazy right?! but how many of us skip lunch at work, drink coffee for breakfast, more often than not its cold coffee, and by 4 we have a mysterious headache. I ate. Real food, cooked in my kitchen or ordered from a real restaurant and sat in a chair and ate, slowly to enjoy every second. P.S some days when I was really feeling adulty, I ate dessert first.

#5 READ

I read a book. A novel, no colorful illustrations, or giant letters, (ok ok….the font was a little big, but that’s because I still haven’t found my readers) I read a few good books this summer. I read I See You, by Elle Gray, this one kept me guessing till the end. I also enjoyed Trust: A Novel, by Dains Reed. Both books were worth the time and took me on a little mental escape I didn’t know I needed.

#6 I did WHATEVER I wanted.

Once my body and mind both understood that I was on summer vacation, I started enjoying all the minuets of it. I woke up and went to the park for a walk, ate breakfast at 10 in McDonalds, I helped my sister paint her living room, I rode around my town at 2pm listening to ole skool hip hop. I behaved like a teacher on summer break.

Enjoy what’s left of your summer break….school starts in 4 sleeps 🙂

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